Actress Ja Jingwen is the film series "Mom, stop being so angry! 》 is very popular, and the drama also presents different emotional views from generation to generation through the mother and daughter. 48-year-old Jae-wen and Xiu Jiekai are "model couples" in the acting circle. They are still sweet after seven years of marriage. Xiu Jiekai was interviewed in the past and admitted that the couple will have feelings when they are disagreeing. Although they are in love at the moment, he revealed that after the quarrel, who will take the initiative to speak to the other party first. Regarding how to "eternally preserve happiness", Ja Jingwen has also shared three secrets of love reversal. (The original text was published on 2022/1/28, and the update time is 2022/10/2)
Xiu Jie Kai and Jae Jingwen registered their marriage in 2015 and have children of Bubu and Bo Niu. He recently received media interviews and shared the couple's life for seven years since the marriage. He said that the couple is a companion to spend their lives together, so they also need to work hard together.
He believed that husband and wife were originally the same "you are you, I am me", and it was impossible to force or try to change each other. "If I tried to change you after trying my best, I would be in pain, and you would feel tired in the end."
The couple formed a family because we were attracted and supplemented by each other. The two people had disagreements and were quarreling hard. In the case of a quarrel, everyone would be affectionate. However, Xiu Jiekai said that he was a person who could quickly clear and digest problems, so after he thought about it, he would take the initiative to go to his wife to explain, "I thought it through clearly, I didn't mean that just now. Let's stop arguing, we should discuss it."
Xu Jie Kai said that the couple slept in the same bed, and they opened their eyes every day to see each other. Even if they quarrel, they never had a cold fight. They had a tacit understanding with their wife, Ja Jingwen, and lived in their relationship with each other. They did not change or fulfill, and cherish every moment with care.
A love that is 9 years apart has never been favored. Ja Jingwen: Marriage is like a dance
For marriage, Ja Jingwen also has her own secret to maintaining happiness. In 2015, when she entered her second marriage with Xiu Jiekai, she was not favored by the outside world. She thought that the two were older, younger, and stronger, and weaker. However, Ja Jingwen believed that "our relationship was like dancing. Because of the collision and retreat, we built the relationship we wanted." Because she had faced many difficulties in the past, "My heart can also pull back the original intention, or perhaps, she can use a smile and love to resolve differences."
She believes that there are three secrets to maintaining love and happiness. First of all, you must believe that there is true love in the world. "Believe it! Without love, life will not be that rich. No matter what stage of life it reaches, I think love is beautiful, no matter whether it has appeared in your life or not."
Secondly, no matter how busy the relationship with your partner, you have to work hard to maintain. "Happiness needs to be maintained by yourself. If you don't give, you may slip away. In life, after living a lot of things, happiness will be grasped very tightly. You know how to preserve, protect, and love it."
Finally, enjoy every moment in your life, you must love yourself and feel that you are the most beautiful time. Don't think about or worry about what your partner will do. "These are all self-inflicted!"
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