Every year, the New Year is a malicious dream for my daughter-in-law! I am often asked by my in-laws to ask for big and small things in Zhang Luo's family, such as: sweeping and cooking big meals... If these things are done smoothly, if I am unfortunately broken by my in-laws, my daughter-in-law's New Year will probably be difficult! A newly married wife posted on social media that she returned to her husband's house during her first year of marriage last year and accidentally found out that she had to cook three meals, only eat leftovers, and wash bowls.
My daughter-in-law cooked three meals during the Chinese New Year and could only eat leftoversA newlywed wife posted a message on social media saying that she "was the first year of marriage last year, and after returning to her father-in-law's house in the Chinese New Year, she learned that she had cooked three meals! After cooking, she still asked her to eat leftovers."
She said that last year was her first year of marriage with her husband, and she went to his hometown with her husband as a wife. She was a big family with about 10 people.
Because her parents-in-law left early, she only learned that she had to be responsible for cooking three meals when she arrived. This made her feel quite surprised that she was not mentally prepared. The husband did not expect that his wife would need to go to the kitchen, so he suggested buying the ready-made food, but the old man refused to do so.
After making some big meals, she was about to sit down with her bowls and chopsticks to eat, and her father-in-law said, "When the man finishes eating, you can come and eat." She felt very angry in her heart, but she didn't show it. It was the first year of her newlyweds. But now it's the New Year again, and I still have to cook again. My daughter-in-law asked reluctantly, "Why can they eat the food I make first? Do I have to eat the leftovers? What's even more amazing is that I wash all the bowls and pots by myself."
As soon as the post was released, a lot of netizens asked, was the original PO married to a Qing Dynasty person? It is best to leave the marriage quickly. "There is no next time! A family that does not respect people is not worth your efforts", "Honey can change it", "Where is my husband now? Didn't he make a sound for his wife at all?", "I cooked it around, and it's half a meal after cooking, but there is no next time for men and women." "Is the husband's family living in a full-time life?", "Is it necessary to have money, and it's better to get married to the New Year", "Is it impossible? Is it a marriage to a Qing Dynasty?", "Is my husband dead?", "Is my husband dead? ? I would turn over the table on the spot, so everyone should not want to eat it", "Thank you for the hard meal, and you can only eat leftovers and get over the meal", "So my mother-in-law divorced early, didn't you realize it?", "Honey, didn't you deal with it? Then it's good to divorce! Parents have worked hard to raise you, don't you want you to marry and pay for yourself", "You won't cook the side, and after cooking, they will eat leftovers", "All the grievances are brought back by themselves", "I will definitely turn on my face on the spot."
There are also many netizens who teach the original possibilities how to prepare for big meals. "This year you can go back on the first day of the New Year and bring the leftovers from New Year's Eve to heat up." "You can prepare the ingredient and baking stew for them to eat", "It is recommended to cook yourself and eat the leftovers first, and then serve the leftovers. If you don't eat the palm, how to fight?" "Wash dishes with dishwashing essence, black vinegar and soy sauce, salt basin, and cook the pot on the gas stove. …… You should be busy with this kind of food", "I will definitely be fucked with a big meal when I meet this kind of father-in-law," "You can cook dark food this year. ~ Add salt to the point of being fried", "It won't be cooked when cooked, the first dish will be burnt, the second half cooked, and the third dish will be twice as much as the third dish. Don't eat it. Add the pot, the pot, and the bowl will be crushed, so that the kitchen can be hot", "A whole pack of salt, the sugar will be packed, the pepper powder will be filled with a bottle of pepper, and the pepper sauce will be filled with a bottle of gas... Remember to keep it hot...", "One serving for each person, it will be the same, and then wait for one serving to plate before taking it out together. This is convenient and you don't have to worry about having leftovers."
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Five strategies for preparing for big meals during the New YearIn order to meet the above difficulties, this daughter-in-law can consider the following five strategies:
1. Prepare in advance: Before the New Year, discuss with the husband about cooking and family dinner. Make sure that both parties have a clear understanding of the matters they are responsible for, and plan the menu for the big meals in advance to reduce the pressure on the day.
2. Her own diet arrangement: My daughter-in-law can cook some food she likes in advance to ensure that at least one meal is in line with her taste. In this way, she can enjoy the food she prepared during the family dinner.
3. Communication Expression: Before a family dinner, the daughter-in-law can express her feelings at the right time and tell her family that she is not satisfied with cooking and eating arrangements. Communicating with your family with an open attitude may lead to more reasonable arrangements.
4. Dishwashing and family division of labor: If the bowls and pots in the home are washed by the daughter-in-law, she can discuss the division of labor with her husband to make the cleaning work after the family dinner more fair.
5. Show yourself in a family dinner: the daughter-in-law can show her cooking skills during a family dinner and surprise everyone with delicious dishes. This may change the perception of family members and at the same time increase one's own status in the family.
The above suggestions hope to help this daughter-in-law better respond to difficulties in the past New Year.